The Dangers of Texts and Emails in Your Trust Litigation Case!
- Linda Varga
- Jul 7
- 2 min read

The Quick Answer: Anything You Say in Writing Can—and Often Will—Be Used Against You
In California trust litigation, texts and emails are among the most common and powerful forms of evidence used in court. Whether you're a beneficiary, trustee, or family member involved in a dispute, your digital messages can be subpoenaed, misinterpreted, or weaponized.
At Moravec, Varga & Mooney, we regularly review text and email records in trust and probate cases. These messages often become key exhibits used to support or defend claims of undue influence, trustee misconduct, or breach of fiduciary duty.
How Texts and Emails Become Legal Evidence
In probate court, texts and emails are considered written communications that may be introduced as evidence under California’s Evidence Code.
Courts will review:
Tone and content of messages
Timing of communication (e.g., just before or after a trust amendment)
Threats, manipulation, or coercion
Statements that suggest intent, capacity, or undue influence
💬 Even an offhand message like “Don’t tell the others what mom said…” could raise red flags.
Common Mistakes People Make with Digital Messages
Here are just a few ways texts and emails can backfire in a trust dispute:
1. Accidental Admissions
You may casually admit something that undermines your legal claim, like acknowledging a trustee’s authority or confirming receipt of a distribution you later deny.
2. Contradictions
If you tell the court one thing but previously wrote something different in a message, opposing counsel will use it to damage your credibility.
3. Emotional Outbursts
Angry texts or emails—even if provoked—can make you appear hostile, irrational, or aggressive in court.
4. Deleted Messages
Deleting emails or texts can be interpreted as intentional destruction of evidence, especially if litigation has already begun.
What Not to Say in Writing During a Trust Dispute
Avoid sending messages that:
Accuse others of wrongdoing without legal advice
Threaten legal action or retaliation
Ask a trustee to violate fiduciary duties
Discuss confidential legal strategy
Pressure an elderly parent or relative to make changes to their estate plan
Even messages between family members or friends can be introduced into evidence—nothing is off limits if it’s relevant to the case.
What to Do Instead
✅ Use neutral language in all communication
✅ Assume that every text or email could be read in court
✅ Keep sensitive discussions offline or through your attorney
✅ Store important messages safely—you may need to produce them
✅ If litigation is likely, stop texting and seek legal advice immediately
When Texts and Emails Can Help Your Case
Texts and emails aren’t always bad—they can support your claims if:
They show the trustee admitted wrongdoing
They confirm a distribution was promised but never delivered
They reveal manipulation by a beneficiary or caregiver
They provide proof of the decedent’s true intent
Properly used, digital communications can become essential evidence in your favor.
Protect Yourself by Speaking Through Counsel
If you’re involved in a trust dispute or worried about upcoming litigation, stop texting about it and start talking to a lawyer. At Moravec, Varga & Mooney, we protect clients from digital missteps and use messages strategically when they support your claim.
📞 Schedule a consultation today before your words are taken out of context.






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